DISTRACTION

One minute life pulls you in one direction, then without any notice your going elsewhere. What does all this mean? I'm confused....Since we was born all we hear is make a plan for your life, set goals. On the other hand we hear don't make plans because they never go thru. Its this saying " If you wanna make god laugh tell him your plans". You never know what's going to happen in your life or the person you are suppose to be, oppose to the person you are becoming. Half of the people I know have lived a whole life before they even made it to their twenties. Who says you have to map out a plan before starting your life? Who made that rule up?  Sometimes the people around you can help jump start you to where u wanna go. So what's, the purpose of the term DISTRACTION. Everyone and everything can be a distraction. If you cut people out of your life just because they are a distraction, then you should prepare yourself to be alone. Sometimes its good to have a distraction. It is the spontaneous moments in our lives that really determines what kind of person we are. We are evolutionaries ready to take on this world with new creative ideas, and unheard of dreams. No matter how fucked up some of us are.lol

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for you ladies thts forcing a relationship or trying to get over one, just let it go.

Life After A Break-Up

Lfe after a break-up is still life. Yes, its a sad situation, but uhave to continue living your life. Basically it depends on the reason, and how things ended that determines how quick or how hard it will be to move on. Wat if you dnt want to move on? What do u do? How can a person be apart of your life for 3 yrs and figure they can just walk out and leave you without any explanations expect for their own selfish reasons? You sit and wait for them to call you and say "baby I made a mistake, I wanna be with you" but what if that day never comes and so much time has flew by. Do you just walk away and never look back or do you resent them for it. What if the reason was another woman. How can you ever feel right about yourself again, another woman took your man or even you man choose another woman over you, how do you accept that? Easy you accept it because its apart of life, knowing that its not your fault its his loss. You can run around blaming yourself and forever trying to find your mistakes. Truth is: if he wanted to be their he would. Its that simple. Now you know what you need and dnt need. Just move on, and if its meant to be it will be.

                                                                                                                                         Sparkle-Miamor