DISTRACTION

One minute life pulls you in one direction, then without any notice your going elsewhere. What does all this mean? I'm confused....Since we was born all we hear is make a plan for your life, set goals. On the other hand we hear don't make plans because they never go thru. Its this saying " If you wanna make god laugh tell him your plans". You never know what's going to happen in your life or the person you are suppose to be, oppose to the person you are becoming. Half of the people I know have lived a whole life before they even made it to their twenties. Who says you have to map out a plan before starting your life? Who made that rule up?  Sometimes the people around you can help jump start you to where u wanna go. So what's, the purpose of the term DISTRACTION. Everyone and everything can be a distraction. If you cut people out of your life just because they are a distraction, then you should prepare yourself to be alone. Sometimes its good to have a distraction. It is the spontaneous moments in our lives that really determines what kind of person we are. We are evolutionaries ready to take on this world with new creative ideas, and unheard of dreams. No matter how fucked up some of us are.lol

Favorite Poem

for you ladies thts forcing a relationship or trying to get over one, just let it go.

Life After A Break-Up

Lfe after a break-up is still life. Yes, its a sad situation, but uhave to continue living your life. Basically it depends on the reason, and how things ended that determines how quick or how hard it will be to move on. Wat if you dnt want to move on? What do u do? How can a person be apart of your life for 3 yrs and figure they can just walk out and leave you without any explanations expect for their own selfish reasons? You sit and wait for them to call you and say "baby I made a mistake, I wanna be with you" but what if that day never comes and so much time has flew by. Do you just walk away and never look back or do you resent them for it. What if the reason was another woman. How can you ever feel right about yourself again, another woman took your man or even you man choose another woman over you, how do you accept that? Easy you accept it because its apart of life, knowing that its not your fault its his loss. You can run around blaming yourself and forever trying to find your mistakes. Truth is: if he wanted to be their he would. Its that simple. Now you know what you need and dnt need. Just move on, and if its meant to be it will be.

                                                                                                                                         Sparkle-Miamor

To Whom This May Concern......Lesson Learned

I now know where my loyalities ly....with myself of course. I just don't know what's wrong with people today, I mean damn is it me. LOL... To be honest I can tell ya'll i'm fine and all I have to do is sleep on it, I would be telling you guys a story. But, I will be fine......I plan on being stronger than any of my downfalls.....

Yes I was burned but I called it a lesson learned
Mistake overturned
So I call it a lesson learned
My soul has returned
So I call it a lesson learned
Another lesson learned

Sometimes
Some lies
Can take a minute
To fully realize
His tears
Your eyes
Thirty seconds to apologize
You give it one more chance
Just like the time before
But he already know you'd give a hundred more
Until that night in bed
You wake up in a sweat
You're racing to the door
Can't take it anymore Life perfect
Ain't perfect
If  you don't know what the struggle's for
Falling down ain't falling down
If  you don't cry when you hit the floor
It's called the past cause I'm getting past
And I ain't nothing like I was before
You ought to see me now

I LEARNED MY LESSON, I'M READY TO GROW PASS IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'M INVISIBLE

Hey Blogger friends: Today is just another day of  me questioning everything in my life, from my values , to the people I chose to have close to me. You have this life you live everyday but somehow you feel lost or invisible to the things and the people around you. I don't know if this is a faze i'm going through or is God trying to show me what I need to do better, as far as the things I choose to deal with in my life. I'm not to sure about alot of things in my life or which its headed in the near future. I just chose to live it day by day whether that brings good or bad days. I don't really ask or expect more than I give. I just want LOVE, SUCCESS, and LOYALTY. I work hard and I go even harder for the things I want. But lately, I have not been myself trying to change others and its not possible. People will be who they are and thats all they can be. Everyday its a fight and a challenge to pursue somethings thats not going to bat with me or for me. Since when does love question trust and trust has to constantly be questioned by love. I keep second guessing myself  when everytime I turn around thee answers is in my face. So I ask myself is it me or the people around me, do they not see the person I am and the person I hoped to be or am I just being invisible to myself. Thts why I have all these questions and no answers. We all have to chose our battles, and this one is mine. Wish me luck!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wat A Day!!!!!!

I have a stalker people!!!!!!!!!! Everything is going crazy right now.....Ladies beware of the term MAN....they are a dangerous species and I for one is sick of them getting there claws in us and feeling like they can do watever. Its 2012 time to take back our power and show these men what life would be like without us......We deal with the unneccessary things like taking shit from there exs or forgiving them and there infidelities. Forget immature boys who just turn into immature men......GOOD WRITTENS.

Shopping

What can I say about shopping......I'M ADDICTED....Just yesterday I brought 7 pair of shoes for no reason. Can't  a girl just be a girl without people questioning her checkbook. Shopping just happens to be a great pass time and a enjoyable hobby. But I will say if you are irresponsible and not finanically stable, I will suggest you calm down until you get your house in order. But to my responsible ones shop until you drop.....Because I know I will.